05 March 2026
“What kind of man do you want to be?” – Chelsea Randall
On Tuesday, 3 March, I had the privilege of attending the International Women’s Day Breakfast held annually at St Peter’s College. Students and staff from Blackfriars Priory School, Christian Brothers College, Prince Alfred College and Rostrevor College joined us to hear from an inspiring panel featuring Chelsea Randall, Kelly Jamieson and Fiona Dorman, with the discussion chaired by journalist Jess Adamson. Together, they drove an important conversation on leadership, equality and respect.
A key theme throughout the discussion was the responsibility young men have in promoting equality through the standards we set and the behaviour we normalise among our peers. The panel spoke about the importance of challenging harmful stereotypes, thinking carefully about the language we use and recognising that everyday conversations contribute to the culture we create. Creating a more equitable society does not happen through major change; it happens in small moments where individuals choose to speak up and support what is right.
The message that resonated most strongly with me came from Chelsea Randall, who asked the question: What kind of man do you want to be? She explained that the answer is shaped by our everyday actions. Something as simple as questioning a disrespectful comment by saying, “Hey mate, what did you just say?” can make someone pause and reconsider their words before repeating them.
In an all-boys’ school, conversations like these are especially important. They should not occur just once a year at these events but become ingrained in our everyday culture. A single-sex environment allows us to challenge stereotypes, hold each other accountable and normalise respect and equality, ensuring we are not simply a reflection of society, but a positive influence upon it.
Archie Braithwaite
School Captain
